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Too Bad! I Long To Be A Good Wife But Can’t Find Anyone To Marry Me

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I’m 38. I’m a nice person. All I have ever dreamed of is being married. I know I would make the perfect wife. I’m not jealous, I’m not a pushover, yet I would devote myself to making sure my husband is happy.

Deep down, I want to feel needed. I want to be the person who fusses over my husband’s dinner, who keeps a perfect running household and still manages to look elegant and beautiful at dinnertime. I want to be taken care of, to be looked after, but more importantly to feel safe. All my friends are getting married, some of them to guys who are really, really below their league, and yet I cannot find anyone who wants to marry me. I’m constantly searching for that one person who will be my saviour.
My greatest fear is that I will end up alone.I can see myself at 40, still single and living in a little flat that I bought at 38, which seemed super independent and grown-up but at 40 seems like the biggest humiliation.

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351 comments

  1. Akala Babatunde

    Congrat’s God have aswer ur prayer ur husband have come lobata !!!

  2. My Uncle is not married… your contact pls

  3. You were looking already made man when you were between 25 to 30 years old.. look at you now… SMH

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  5. From my findings, every beautiful lady above 30yrs that is yet to marry has an error of undifined.
    Though that everybody is good in his or her front

  6. Ven Ngozi Fitchett

    What a fabulous advert. At least she is honest. Ok, our lovely Naija bachelors, the ball is in your court. Could one of you please make this nice woman happy!! She will pamper you and fuss over your dinner. Seriously what more do you want? Bachelors, biko, don’t disappoint!

  7. Ven Ngozi Fitchett

    Yeah life is more than that, i absolutely agree, but tell that to a single lady!!

  8. Ven Ngozi Fitchett

    Exactly, meanwhile most of the swarg guys are a nightmare while the guys they are overlooking would probably make better husbands.

  9. Mosunmola Lawo

    My dear, don’t lose hope, pray and fasting you don’t need to go to any person for prayer, ask God is ready to answer your prayers. He is the same God yesterday, today and tomorrow and forever. And put urself down and God will put you up. I wish you good luck, IN JESUS mighty name

  10. Princess Melissa Terhayene

    Ranting mr Goodie too shoe show yourself out as if I care Pmsl

  11. I read her story it’s really heart touching one, any body who know her Facebook name, I huv some special to tell her, if u know her inbox me tnxz

  12. Obinna Ike Eze

    She’s still single Ngo, that was why I dropped those words of encouragement for her.

  13. Obinna Ike Eze

    She’s still single Ngo, that was why I dropped those words of encouragement for her.

  14. Harrison Mwanyumba

    Come to Kenya my sister!

  15. Ven Ngozi Fitchett

    Lol. Yeah i see what you mean. Don’t mind me. I do agree but you know how it is. It will be hard for her as a single naija woman to accept that especially if she is getting all sort of comments ,half of which will be behind her back.

  16. Hon Saka A Hakeem

    Adebayo u no find out status of her health. Anyway shaa if everything dey ok with her me self follow join

  17. God is in control

  18. Are you that cheap woman? You don’t need to advertise for husband your character will make way for you. Just be good.

  19. You will have 1soon in Jesus name. Amen

  20. God will give you your earth desire

  21. Obinna Ike Eze

    Yes my dear, but our major problem is that we mind so much about what people say. Let’s try and understand the scriptures a bit, in ecclesiastic, it made us understand that nothing just happens, may God almighty continue to grant us more understanding.

  22. Ozor Emmanuel Ifeanyi

    Lol. Menopause is loaded………

  23. Celestin Munya Cele Munya

    Apartir de 19 à 38 fait un retour en ton esprit notre Père Céleste va te pardonner et tu aura un bon mariage au Nom de Jésus-Christ.

  24. Not that you are not beautiful enough,but you are tied spiritually and also in apiritual cage.Look for solution my dear and hold on to God.

  25. Bash Dfriendly Gee

    zeddy is a 47 years old Female Seeking Marriage Preferred to meet Muslim from Any Country and 40-60 age range
    Reside: Dae Es Salaam, Dar Es Salaam Tanzania
    Nationality or Root Country: Tanzania
    Marital Status: Divorced Age: 47
    Religion: Muslim Practicing level: Beleive
    Height: 173 cm Body Type: Average +
    Have Children: Yes Smoke: Drinker: No
    Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Dark Brown
    Occupation: Employed-General Education Level: College
    Member Since: 2010-02-18 Last Login: 2011-08-30
    More about the person I am seeking
    Nationality or Root Country: Any Country
    Religion: Muslim
    Age Range: 40-60
    Comment:
    i a looking for a Black muslim man for marriage
    zeddy (zamda) Communication channels
    * Receiving messages from Tanzania residents
    * Receiving messages from All ethnics
    * Receiving messages from Muslim members

  26. Blessing Onome

    mumu what of dose that as marriedd at 40 and 50

  27. Bash Dfriendly Gee

    She was married before, how come gossipmills no dey bring complete story. They got the photo from a Muslim dating site, her name is Zeddy from Tanzania

  28. Bash Dfriendly Gee

    She was married before, how come gossipmills no dey bring complete story. They got the photo from a Muslim dating site, her name is Zeddy from Tanzania bestmuslim.com

  29. Inbox me plz en wil talk more may iwil b ur sarver plz am realy serious

  30. Jesse Anie Akpabio

    You see how life is?, When you where between 18 and 25 you refused accepting friend request, refused replying some chats, refused giving out your number when asked, ignoring calls when called by Strange number, even giving less attention to the ones who tried talking to you physically… Now 38 you wonder why there’s no husband… My dear it’s not the Devils fault o, it’s your fault, Our African ladies should learn to be humble and social, exchanging contacts or being friends with a guy you’ve never known doesn’t make you cheap…. Change that mentality, cause now a days husbands come in the form of nobody, just to see how much you will respect a nobody..

  31. Prince Eleemosinary Foudation

    Most of this stories arw fiction

  32. Thanks for the information Bash

  33. Thanks for the information Bash

  34. You will see husband play well

  35. You will see husband play well

  36. Chioma Anyiam Akalonu

    Be positive about and trust God it has nothing 2 do with age

  37. Chioma Anyiam Akalonu

    Be positive about and trust God it has nothing 2 do with age

  38. Don’t judge her is better to say it then died with it

  39. Inbox me your number,

  40. John Raymond Cudjoe

    The Good God Almighty we all know will make a way for you ,fear not God is at your side ,in Jesus name Amen

  41. Beatrice Lukiya

    The problem is that you don’t believe in your self you just need to find who you are first, then get your confidence and self esteem to put your self out there my dear. Every one deserves love no matter who you are and God has created someone for all of us out there waiting on. I don’t think you even realise how beautiful you are. Good luck!

  42. Peter A. Ihueze

    Christ’s prophecy is coming to life.

  43. PreciousAdemuyiwa

    God we make away for you my sis

  44. Ask your auntie whyU0001f43d

  45. God Will provide a good husband for you.

  46. God Will provide a good husband for you.

  47. Ngatunda Skalu

    Good will hear your prayes.

  48. Ngatunda Skalu

    Good will hear your prayes.

  49. worry not you are still cute looking your man will come ooo ijn

  50. Julius Shilaho

    Thought you in Kenya. I’d have invited you.

  51. You just have to pray my dear

  52. @ezenwa hahahaha really,where u there?

  53. But they say time is too short and she’s not getting any younger

  54. Tilawen Chebomelek

    Single at 38 u must b kidding unless u r divorcé, how many kids do u av?

  55. sorry beauty mum too late 38 year but if u believe in Allah ur husband will com

  56. Usman Aminu Musa

    Materialism has been one of the major cause of this kind of situation most ladies find themselves in, they tend to be more selective for riches during their youthful age

  57. Leonard Ajulumuo

    Send me ur personal number immediately. I believe u re a God’s sent to me.

  58. Kip praying to Allah woman from Wase Wase

  59. U r 38 but u look like 58

  60. Look unto God who is the beginning and the end.Keep faith.

  61. Destiny Irabor

    God’s time is the best

  62. While you was young, what kept u from getting married? Women, most of you talk like kids though

  63. You old already ma, Sweet sixteen are begging for marriage is difficult dis days not to talk of you old mama. Sorry you Don cross boarder o, lolssssssss

  64. May GOD here your prayer and give you good husband or Almighty God we are praying give her a husband that will care for her and make her happy any evil spirit or cous are gent her we break it in Jesus name thank you lord for answering our prayer

  65. Musa Augustine Idoko

    God will do it at the perfect time

  66. Sanusi Abdulazeez

    Sister, my advice to u is that go to another town and become new person.who ever that come 4 u pray B4 u say yes.and as u reached there prayer and fasting should be ur priority-may ALLAH help u-Amin.

  67. Idris Mohammed

    Marrie me im 35

  68. Livinstone Chimezie

    Gimme #60 million

  69. Dear never mind God’s appointed time will not pass you bye. He knows your heart desire and he will surely grant it to you cheer up my dear.

  70. hahahaa, not only 38….but u looked 45 to me. madam what where u doing from d age of 25 to 30????

  71. Pls fine any means to contact me, I love u

  72. May God wipe ur tears in Jesus name, Amen.

  73. Mohammed Mohammed

    pretty one pls send me ur phone no for a talk

  74. Find out what’s wrong, check yourself, i mean your character, how you relate to people, and finally, check your stand with God because only Him can give you what you desire in life… May God help us

  75. Oh my God she become old woman

  76. Hyacinth Gumbs

    Talk to God my sister, he will lead the way, please don’t be so negative. God First.

  77. Who is this john walker? You talk like you are one semi god but you are just an empty barrel full of nothing your comments are so harsh and so rude I bet u don’t know what it is to be of that age and still be single? Will she push herself to a man? Hell no! Besides where are the men?the courageous one are married the timid ones are scared of commitment and the rugged ones like you are gigolos jobless and lazy.# mtshewwww# anyway my sis it is well I don’t see anywhere in the bible where it is written that you are too old to be favoured wait for your time and if you can’t be like me that’s what apostle Paul said shalom!

  78. Hahahaa blood of Joshua

  79. You see yourself

  80. Why you no write say you need wife ? Nor be only inbox me na Box me

  81. +233553654288 call me please

  82. When she was 22 she be like I want just date Emma , I only want to enter Samuels car and as for Johnson na e money I want just chop leave am , now all the guys are married she’s left alone with a thousand prayer request , God will answer your prayer

  83. Then you need a serious deliverance

  84. You shouldnt av applauded yourself,for me,you are even too old to become the first wife perhaps second or third;thats if this was your true image!

  85. Do you really need to do this my sister ha (God).

  86. Joel Olugbemiga Ayantoyinbo

    so sad,but belief me God is in control

  87. My dear sister wait God is never too late there’s aparticular man he has prepared for u that will make u happy and give adivine speed in life talk of Child bearing. Life achievement etc not how far but how well

  88. Daniel A Abikoye

    But you didn’t mention your name, town, religion e,t,c lf you are Christian, l counsel you look for church for real deliverance not every church you can go for deliverance ask people will guard you believe in God

  89. Elkanah Brian Seymour

    you are too nice maybe you changed. anyone can marry you but i am sure you do not want to live with anyone!

  90. Den meet ur pastor for more deliverance.

  91. Chuks Emmanuel

    Hey u guys aren’t telling her what she wants to hear…..does it mean that all these guys here are hooked?

  92. Chioma Massah Nwobodo

    Hahaha u have nt live with man before then u say u are a good wife okoooo

  93. Usman Umar Chul

    May Allah give you your choice

  94. Kayode Oladele

    my dear dont because of that marri enbody you se God will select for you by prayer believe dat

  95. Don’t lose faith. Keep being yourself, doing good and pray. Your good qualities will attract the kind of man to match you. God is still in the workshop…He knows

  96. Kemi Bolanle Olaleye

    Haba! Na so you wicked?

  97. Steve Azukaego Opene

    This is too dangerous

  98. Baba Felix Na Wanja

    Your number please

  99. Daniel Cheruiyot

    Very serious ,, don’t loss off or despair?? Be good, do good nkt we are many and we are ready???

  100. Prayer is the only way out

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